A writer contemplating life commitment finds it 'just hard to fathom' that couples don't bore each other.
People do get sick of each other, often intensely. But for a well-matched couple, it either happens mildly, or infrequently, or fleetingly, or all three.As for inane conversations, sure, you’ll have them. But they’ll be your inanities, which in a way are like your children — they’re no less obnoxious than everyone else’s, but you love them more anyway.These ruts are why being fiercely attracted to someone physically should trigger fierce caution when your intention is mating for life.
Does the person you’re seeing have the potential to be your endlessly interesting mate? That’s the part you just know, when it feels right. Or so I hear.I have been divorced for five years. I have friends who are still friends with my ex. Recently I heard my ex remarried and this couple went to his wedding. I am very hurt because they saw how I was hurt by my ex. Should this couple be friends with both of us? They stated they did nothing wrong.
I understand the pain and confusion, but the wedding is a nonissue. Either the friendship was wrong five years ago , in which case that is the issue — or the friendship was fine then. In that case it’s still fine, even if it smarts a bit more at the moment. I’m sorry.
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