'Other' People In Affairs Are Sharing Why They Did It, What Happened In The End, And How They Feel Now

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'Other' People In Affairs Are Sharing Why They Did It, What Happened In The End, And How They Feel Now
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'An affair is all-consuming. It’s all you think about, it’s an addiction. I knew it was wrong — but my need was stronger than that knowledge. So was his.'

in a relationship to share their side of the story, and they opened up about why they did it and what happened — so here are but some of their responses:"I’d been divorced for 10 years and was not interested in dating until my kids were up and out, but I really missed sex. A friend from a co-ed team started flirting with me and being suggestive. In the beginning, it was just a lot of sexting. He’s truly a good guy, and he’s in a very happy 20+ year marriage.

After a few dates, he invited me to his apartment. He had been in St. Louis for six months, and his apartment was basically empty. I suggested we watch a movie, and it was immediately clear that he had never set up his Apple TV — despite regularly texting back-and-forth with me about shows and movies he was watching ‘at his apartment.’ He obviously didn't know how to use an Apple TV or how to connect anything to his WiFi. He honestly acted as if he had never been in the apartment before.

"We talk every day, and I see him a couple of times a week. We don’t sneak around or anything, and, despite what someone might think, it’s really not a physical relationship. Of course, we’ve had sex, but mostly it’s emotional. We soon became good friends. We joked about how I was his ‘mistress’ and how we trusted each other to ‘never just disappear’ on one another. That was a constant conversation — about how sad I’d be if he just disappeared on me one day.

I suppose there is some record of me on a divorce document detailing me as 'the other woman,' and I hate it." —"We were both married and miserable. It was exciting and gave me a new lease on life. I initially had no intentions of leaving my husband. My lover had tried to leave his wife several times. Because she tried to keep the kids from him, he'd always go back. Having an affair made me feel sexy and wanted which I badly needed.

My kids were not treated very well either because my now husband felt guilty and wasn’t a very good stepdad for the first six or seven years. It’s taken me a long time to forgive myself. I have apologized to the kids and even to his ex for the hurt we caused. She’s remarried but is still bitter. My ex and my now-husband now work together and have a very cordial relationship. All the kids are grown now and doing well. I have been very honest about the affair and my regrets with them all.

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